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prayinghard · 11-23-2009, 08:30 PM

I'm at the end of my ropes, I've try for 2 years to forgive my husband for emtionally cheating. It's not working, he is a good huband and excellent with children so why can't I just get over it. He was my soulmate. I ended my last long term relationship of 8 years for cheating...just walked away. The difference this time I'm married there is more invested. My husband was talking and sharing information about me with this person also he crossed the line sending naked pictures. Also I don't know if this is someone on his job or not he also had a naked picture of a lady breasts on his phone (from his job). he says someone sent this to him. I never even thought of such... I feel like I'm losing more of myself each day trying to cope. There is also money issues (trust) like where is the extra money going i don't really see how he would have the time to cheat but.... i don't know anymore I've been married 10 years. I don't know how to forgive and still be happy with him, nothing is happening currently i think i have been hiding my feelings. And now things have just hit the fan:

11-23-2009, 08:30 PM	#1 (permalink)
prayinghard Registered User Join Date: Nov 2009 Posts: 1	betrayed I'm at the end of my ropes, I've try for 2 years to forgive my husband for emtionally cheating. It's not working, he is a good huband and excellent with children so why can't I just get over it. He was my soulmate. I ended my last long term relationship of 8 years for cheating...just walked away. The difference this time I'm married there is more invested. My husband was talking and sharing information about me with this person also he crossed the line sending naked pictures. Also I don't know if this is someone on his job or not he also had a naked picture of a lady breasts on his phone (from his job). he says someone sent this to him. I never even thought of such... I feel like I'm losing more of myself each day trying to cope. There is also money issues (trust) like where is the extra money going i don't really see how he would have the time to cheat but.... i don't know anymore I've been married 10 years. I don't know how to forgive and still be happy with him, nothing is happening currently i think i have been hiding my feelings. And now things have just hit the fan: