jessi

Hi,
I'm sorry your husband has taken this approach, he is still not ready to totally forgive you for stepping outside the marriage.
Have you told him how you are feeling because of his actions? Maybe you push him a little and tell him that if he can't forgive you then maybe it's not going to work between the two of you. Or I suppose you might need to understand that because of your situation it may never be like it used to be....he is protection mode now, make him believe with everything in you that this will never happen again, sooner or later he will believe and respond like he used to.......I know it hurts but hang in there, there must have been something strong between you in order for him to stay.....good luck