Originally Posted by Mr Blunt
First keep yourself in the position that you are in. That position is one that keeps the abuse from coming to you. You have a wounded soul and you need to keep anyone from making your soul bleed more.
The people that I know that have been successful in forgiving incorporate a spiritual faith based on Christ. I could comment more but do not want to if you are one that does not care for that kind of spirituality. Some people get offended by that faith and you do not need anyone to offend you.
I do believe in Faith and God.. and yes I do pray for myself and him. Not to bring us back together,, but so I can heal, and he can become a better person, for himself and all who he is in contact with.
I appreciate the support from you both.. Its awful how someone can treat someone else with no respect, and supposedly not even realize they are doing it..