 Re: My husband doesn't consider me "family"
Hokie, hi. Maybe H just needs some time to adjust to you being part of his family. You met and married pretty quick (like me and my H) so maybe he just needs some time on this.
Sounds like he is pretty close to his dad and brother, which is great, but is it possible there are some trust issues relating to his mum? My H took a long time to get used to the relationship I had with my family as he was brought up completely differently. He was brought up to be independent of his family, where as my family are very close.
I wouldn't question that he loves you, as you said he was with his ex for 5 years and they didn't marry. How did that relationship end?
Are you a young couple? I only ask because I married at 23, my H was only 21, we had only known each other 6 months. We both had a lot of learning to do about relationships and family dynamics. Our sex life was always pretty good but we were both shy about talking about our needs and 19 years later we are still learning about communicating with each other.
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