i wonder why dont you guys read the story from the cheaters to answer your questions. well i'm a cheater wife and i will tell you how i feel between my husband Fred and the other guy Ben. i like Ben and i love the excitements in sex with him, and its very comfortable to talk with him about everything, but i always know it not gonna last, it can never work to be in a relationship with him. and i still always love my husband Fred, the only thing keep me seeing Ben again and again just are the exciting feelings in bed, which is very different with marriage' sex. but then when i have to make a choice, of course i have chose my husband, because we love each other so much and we have a perfect life together, i would not distroy it for a man that i know it wont work. and since i made the decision, i really need my husband's help to recover the pain and to get this guy out of my mind. well i didnt have the damn gut to tell Fred about my affair, but he is really the huge role to help me out of this trouble, to be in his arms and show me his love would make me feel safe and try to stop thinking about Ben. it was just 1 week since im stop seeing Ben, so it still new though, but i really feel much better each day now and i really believe i can get Ben out of my mind 1 day soon, just need some more time, just need to have Fred's love with me always...
so, that might also be your husband's thought since he chose you, because he just know that you are the best for him, so please stop those questions and give him a chance, please help him to get back to your life, because he is trying very hard now to get out of this mess and he need your help
if you want to read more about my story, its here:
anyone here have an affair like me?
after all, i really hope it can help
cheers