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Ditajr · 11-24-2009, 06:45 AM

I'm not being being defensive and I am certainly not making excuses. It seems that you assumed some things before you responded. I do want opinions and suggestions, but what I am not looking for is for all the blame to be put on me and have someone point fingers and say "YOU YOU YOU"...I know what I did was wrong and hurtful. I have had my husband and plenty of other people tell me this for the past how many years and frankly, I am sick of it. Neutral advice is what I want, not somone telling me that this is my fault and I have to do everything to fix it.

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Ditajr Member Join Date: Nov 2009 Location: York, Pa Posts: 74	Re: I Cheated on My Husband... I'm not being being defensive and I am certainly not making excuses. It seems that you assumed some things before you responded. I do want opinions and suggestions, but what I am not looking for is for all the blame to be put on me and have someone point fingers and say "YOU YOU YOU"...I know what I did was wrong and hurtful. I have had my husband and plenty of other people tell me this for the past how many years and frankly, I am sick of it. Neutral advice is what I want, not somone telling me that this is my fault and I have to do everything to fix it.