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cody5 · 11-24-2009, 09:37 AM

The "I didn't tell you because you would take it wrong" is a HUGE red flag. If there was nothing to take wrong, there would be no need for secrecy. Two exact emails: one done in secrecy the other out in the open are a WORLD apart in what they say.

In a commited marriage you don't sneak behind your spouses back to communicate w/ members of the opposite sex. Even IF it's innocent. But if it's done in secrecy, it's NOT innocent.

I'm starting to take this stuff personally, even when it has nothing to do with me.

11-24-2009, 09:37 AM	#3 (permalink)
cody5 Member Join Date: Sep 2009 Posts: 229	Re: Another emotional affair? The "I didn't tell you because you would take it wrong" is a HUGE red flag. If there was nothing to take wrong, there would be no need for secrecy. Two exact emails: one done in secrecy the other out in the open are a WORLD apart in what they say. In a commited marriage you don't sneak behind your spouses back to communicate w/ members of the opposite sex. Even IF it's innocent. But if it's done in secrecy, it's NOT innocent. I'm starting to take this stuff personally, even when it has nothing to do with me.