dan681

I've been married for 14 years. I just recently found out that my wife had an affair. She also told me that she had been lying and doing cocaine for @ three years. We went to our first marriage counseling session last night. I am trying to make this work. The counseler really made it hard on my wife to lie anymore. She was very uncomfortable. During the session, she was asked "why do you love your husband?" She couldn't think of anything??? All she came up with is "I support her." What the heck?? She was then asked what she fell in love with me in the first place. Her response was to get defensive and mutter" it wasn't all nice."??? I don't know what to make of all this??? It almost seems like she doesn't want this to work out at all. She continually blames me for her mistakes. I am trying to be a better man and forgive her, but her actions are making it harder and harder!!