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Originally Posted by Ditajr
I don't get what I really want from this marriage, which I think are some of the more simple things to do.
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I think you need to make this very clear to your husband. While I abhor that you cheated on him for whatever reason you are trying to salvage the marriage. His refusal to talk about it or seek counsel will make it impossible to recover the marriage to a satisfactory level. Perhaps a well written letter to him stating your wants and needs for you, your marriage, your child and him would get him thinking. Also the more time you can spend together as a couple will help to repair things and maybe help him open up. Make time for it. No, you don't want to live your life in an unhappy marriage but give it every effort before you throw in the towel. Reaching out here is just another step toward trying to do that, good for you. These things take time. I am well into the second year of recovery of our marriage, we are out of the woods but still have some work to do. Good luck.