 Re: would it bother you if you're spouse hid extra money from you?
To the Op,
I think the problem is bigger than him hiding money.
The lying for small things and hiding it is the greater issue.
And what's up with that bullet proof vest?
Sounds like he's living in an alternate reality,
aka fantasy land.
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