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Deejo · 06-26-2008, 04:11 PM

Nothing like a great sex thread to pull you out of a 3pm stupor.

I have an open mind. I understand that many people have no desire or wish to challenge and push the boundaries of how intimate relationships are defined or managed. I also accept that those people may have deep, loving, fulfilling relationships.

I also recognize that there are folks that have, and maintain, deep, loving, fulfilling relationships by virtue of the fact that they share their intimate experiences with others.

I maintain that the idea of multiple partners is more exciting and free-wheeling, than the reality. Nobody decides to swing, or engage in a 3some without serious negotiations with their partner, or other parties to be included about physical and emotional boundaries prior to the throwdown.

I say talk to your husband. Talk about fantasies - share fantasies. Bridge that gap first, and then decide about taking the next step.

06-26-2008, 04:11 PM	#14 (permalink)
Deejo Member Join Date: May 2008 Posts: 105	Re: You'll need an open mind for this one... Nothing like a great sex thread to pull you out of a 3pm stupor. I have an open mind. I understand that many people have no desire or wish to challenge and push the boundaries of how intimate relationships are defined or managed. I also accept that those people may have deep, loving, fulfilling relationships. I also recognize that there are folks that have, and maintain, deep, loving, fulfilling relationships by virtue of the fact that they share their intimate experiences with others. I maintain that the idea of multiple partners is more exciting and free-wheeling, than the reality. Nobody decides to swing, or engage in a 3some without serious negotiations with their partner, or other parties to be included about physical and emotional boundaries prior to the throwdown. I say talk to your husband. Talk about fantasies - share fantasies. Bridge that gap first, and then decide about taking the next step.