Originally Posted by mike123gallagher

This is a tough one!

Sure, you are in a partnership.. you and hubby should consider each others feelings, communicate, etc.. . But if you are unhappy with your sex life something needs to be done about it. I don't get people... the general population seems to think if one partner isn't into sex the other should just understand.... like sex isn't that important once you are married.

Look at it this way, if your partner was an alcoholic and was neglecting you and your family people would advice you to do something about it, and maybe even consider divorce... but being neglected sexually isn't a big deal... "what are you a perv, a sl~t.. come on, you are in a marriage just deal with it".. I don't think so!

And from a male perspective, and a human being (not just an animal.. ha ha), your hubby is insane for not embracing an open minded, adventurours woman like yourself. After all, you are talking about inlcuding him, experiencing this with him.. not cheating!