justean

my hubby has hrt me loads emotionally over the years, drinking, no consideration for us as a family, mates first.
but they are men , unfortunately its a bad excuse, but it really is because they are men. they really are from mars and us from venus.
most men are in denial. my hubby used to get aggresive with drink and was moody and short tempered. but i guarantee you 100% next day , the day b 4 wouldnt have happened. its because they dont want to acknowledge there behavior, yet as women we could stay in a mood for the next 3 days. but you still wont get them to listen after 3 days.
my hubby actually had to admit to himself he had a problem. #
he went to our gp and they gave him an anti depressive.
i must say i had the most wonderful husband in 13 years, loving , good husband and even better a fantastic father.
3 weeks later he had a one night stand. april 8 08. but he was fuelled with drink and taking those tablets, whilst also being egged on by a supposed mate. well lets ust say what a mad combination.
we r split at the moment, but he came home after a holiday.
we take things day by day.
but he did get rid of his stupid friend, that i had warned him about for the past 6 months. and his drinking improved.
but our sex life was and has been always good.
you can improve this. but this wil take time.
? what do you want from sex.
my hubby asked me to do something, that i did not want to do.
but after doing it for him, the act i still wasnt fussed on .but as it turned him on so much, his being turned on actually turned me on.#
so the act took a different perspective.
at your moment, you need a pick me up, can you arrange to go out with a mate to a club . either way you need to smile and dancing allows you freedom. you can made good decisions, as dancing pushes up your endorphins, they give you the good feeling, because something like dance is doing multiple things, like you tone up and lose weight and smile.