desi, welcome to Talk About Marriage.
I noticed you said "need help fast" - hopefully someone will have some quick suggestions. I just wanted to let you know that the forum is very new, so sometimes it takes a few days to get a response.
If you feel you need some urgent guidance, there are some professional therapists listed in our directory's "
Online Counseling" section that do "On-Demand" phone counseling. You may want to try some of them.
Good luck,
Chris