Originally Posted by revitalizedhusband
Yes, he should choose between the friend and you, but guys will talk to their friends about sex most of the time, so even if he leaves that friend and eventually gets another, he might still talk about sex with you.
It never occurred to me, someone out there in the world would be in the same situation as I am. I will pray ... your spouse will stand by you always and be empathetic towards your pain.
It is just that I can never trust that friend. I feel like he must have visualized me.... with him again..... Terrible thoughts keep pounding over my mind.....
I surely would be would not have minded if he spoke to someone I trust too. I might be a lil uncomfortable. But would have understood his "need" to talk.