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Amplexor · 06-27-2008, 10:34 AM

Bad Guy

Continue on your changes. Stay off the booze and give her space when she needs it. Attention when she accepts it. Time is not your enemy in this, it is your ally. Because when you ask her what she wants to do and she says “I don’t know” it doesn’t mean some one else is involved. It simply means she’s trying to work through what’s best for her. Just because friends at work have experience infidelity on their spouses part doesn’t mean she is engaging in it. Sure it’s a possibility but use your intuition and understanding of her make that determination. Not a bunch of sour grapes from others. Spending some causal time with her is great and don’t expect much more for a while. Again, don’t dote on her but show her you care. Show confidence and empathy. Things will take time but they can work out. Good luck

06-27-2008, 10:34 AM	#18 (permalink)
Amplexor Moderator Join Date: Feb 2008 Location: Midwest Posts: 885	Re: Trying to keep my marriage together! Bad Guy Continue on your changes. Stay off the booze and give her space when she needs it. Attention when she accepts it. Time is not your enemy in this, it is your ally. Because when you ask her what she wants to do and she says “I don’t know” it doesn’t mean some one else is involved. It simply means she’s trying to work through what’s best for her. Just because friends at work have experience infidelity on their spouses part doesn’t mean she is engaging in it. Sure it’s a possibility but use your intuition and understanding of her make that determination. Not a bunch of sour grapes from others. Spending some causal time with her is great and don’t expect much more for a while. Again, don’t dote on her but show her you care. Show confidence and empathy. Things will take time but they can work out. Good luck __________________ Amp Confidence – Love – Patience – Faith Are the tools to help heal a marriage.