brenda

I used to get upset with my husband for being a little selfish. He goes to work, comes home, eats dinner, goes to the garage until 9, then he's on the computer until 10. We just had a baby in January, and his routine hasn't changed. I have brought this to his attention many times, and not until I'm in tears and we've been arguing for an hour, does he get the point. At least he says he gets the point?? but if nothing changes, does he really get the point. He makes me feel horrible for wanting him to spend time with the baby and I. He still plans his jet ski trips, beers with the boys, and 4-wheeling weekends as per usual. Is this normal? How do I get my point across? He thinks that he still needs to have his time, and that I should have my time, but what time is left for our family?