Hello everyone im new here. So i thought id say hi and hopefully get some advice at the same time.
This is quite embarrassing for me to do this but i just don't know where else to turn.
I have been married since summer 2007 , there has never been any problems with mine and my husbands sex life till now. To put it bluntly he just aint interested. I dont know what has changed, we havent had sex in over a month now. whenever i suggest early nights he all of a sudden get a back ache, ok he has had a bad back for a while but it only seam to hurt when it comes to bed time. iv tryed talking to him about it but he gets all grumpy and says our relationship shouldn't be based on how offtern we have sex, which dosent really say much! Im not some sex mad weirdo but i think its normal to want it from time to time and i think its quite an important part of a relationship.
This is really getting me down, i just dont know what has gone wrong, he tells me he loves me all the time and is affectionate towards me but thats where it ends.
Has any one else ever experienced this? i know plenty of men would have but any women?
any ideas on what could be going on?
