dan681

We had our first counseling session on monday. My wife was very defensive when the counseler confronted her about some issues. She put up a wall, and would not take responsibility for anything. She even blamed me for her affair??? When she was asked why she loves me, she was silent for a couple of minutes?? The only thing she said was"He supports me."??? WTF??? I was very disappointed about this, and confronted her when we got home. She just denied it. The next day, we talked for 4 1/2 hours and made alot of progress. She accepted responsibility for her actions. She stopped blaming me for everything!! She showed remorse. This is what I've been wanting since I found out about all this ****. I still need to know some of the details about her drug usage. I think I deserve that. She agreed that she would be honest with me, and try to make an effort to save this relationship. I don't know weather to believe her or not?? I want to, but I have some reservations. In the days leading up to thanksgiving, she has been hot and cold towards me. She doesn't seem to be putting any extra effort in??