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scarletblue · 11-26-2009, 04:57 PM

First of all, don't just group us all women and that's it. We are all very different people, just like men are.

Maybe she did appreciate what all you did. The question is, did you appreciate what she did? If she was an inconsiderate person, she wouldn't be worried about fixing your dinner while she was at work.

With women out there in the workforce now because it is really tough to make it on just one income anymore, this crap about the housework being the woman's job doesn't cut it anymore.

You're supposed to be a team and want to do things for each other and your children, not point fingers at each other.

I do most of the housework and cooking at my house because I work less than my hubby does. BUT, if I come home from maybe a bad day at work, or tired, or not feeling well, hubby has no problem doing whatever needs to be done.

I don't want everything on a silver platter, and I don't want anyone who does, either.

What kind of role model and father are you to a girl, with your low opinion of women? She is, after all, going to be one eventually. I really worry for her.

11-26-2009, 04:57 PM	#13 (permalink)
scarletblue Member Join Date: May 2009 Location: Washington State Posts: 360	Re: question about household chores First of all, don't just group us all women and that's it. We are all very different people, just like men are. Maybe she did appreciate what all you did. The question is, did you appreciate what she did? If she was an inconsiderate person, she wouldn't be worried about fixing your dinner while she was at work. With women out there in the workforce now because it is really tough to make it on just one income anymore, this crap about the housework being the woman's job doesn't cut it anymore. You're supposed to be a team and want to do things for each other and your children, not point fingers at each other. I do most of the housework and cooking at my house because I work less than my hubby does. BUT, if I come home from maybe a bad day at work, or tired, or not feeling well, hubby has no problem doing whatever needs to be done. I don't want everything on a silver platter, and I don't want anyone who does, either. What kind of role model and father are you to a girl, with your low opinion of women? She is, after all, going to be one eventually. I really worry for her.