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My wife started a new job back in August. She was pregnant at the time with baby number two. We had the baby in November and everything was going great for a long time. In March things started to change though. She started to hang out with a group of guys that she works with a lot more often. She started to talking to one on the phone quite a bit more.

I didn't mind her going out once a week with her new friends or talking to them on the phone. Things started getting out of control when she was coming home around 3 or 4 in the morning, started talking to one guy more often, and her general attitude started to change.

I know that she would never cheat on me. She has told me that she doesn't have fun at home, doesn't enjoy being at home with me and has more fun out with her friends. She hasn't looked at me or let me touch her in months. She says that we arn't in the right place and not as close as we used to be. I know that I havn't changed and everything that is going on is because she has been stuck in the house for over two years with pregnancies and she just wants to go out and have fun.

My problem is with one guy in particular. She has stopped talking to him as much and has stopped going out so late. I just can't handle her walking around with her cell phone in her hand waiting for him to call her. Meeting him for ice cream. Going for walks with him. Am I out of line for feeling this way, or do I have a reason to be jealous. Again, I know for a fact, I really really really do, that she wouldn't cheat on me. This is just a friend. I am just worried that because of our problems he is the guy she is turning towards, and me being jealous doesn't help the situation. She isn't cheating on me now, but if we continue to have problems that may change.