Bel

Hi there,

I can't help you really but wanted to say I understand your confusion. My Ex wants to help me through the break up and be my friend - he told me he no longer loves me but respects, admires and enjoys my company.
I have decided this week to just go without him - trying to cut contact - very hard as trully he is the one who understands me the best and can calm/relax me when I'm upset/emotional etc.
I'm not even sure that we could be friends in the long run. Too emotionally attached right now for me, but I'll give it a shot.
Perhaps if you told her that you are too emotionally attached right now and that she needs to take a step back if she wants to be 'friends', BUT only if you could be friends - and only friends with no hope of a future together.