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justean · 06-27-2008, 12:19 PM

i see where your at now, an old mate of my had the same scenario.
hubby has had a few threesomes. with his wifes best friend.
but whenever she mentioned a 3 some with a bloke, apparently he got nasty. it was alwalys no and i dont think they have til this day. but he still has his 3 somes. with her best friend.
tell me if im on the wrong track, - i wont take it personal.
i know where your coming from on the person who you could do it with. its because you knew that person, you found him attractive and you felt you could have fun and it would be safe.
why dont you try a swingers club. you dont have to take partners and they usually accept single women.
i know what you mean by not approaching. your scared of the rejection.
i feel it too sometimes. but when your in the bedroom, why dont you just initiate. i used to get to a point of just lying in bed like an idiot, but desperate for sex.
waiting for the initiation sometimes never came.
so i took this one the shoulders and just thought if i want it. im getting it.
i dont care if i initiate.

06-27-2008, 12:19 PM	#21 (permalink)
justean Member Join Date: May 2008 Location: south wales. uk Posts: 736	Re: You'll need an open mind for this one... i see where your at now, an old mate of my had the same scenario. hubby has had a few threesomes. with his wifes best friend. but whenever she mentioned a 3 some with a bloke, apparently he got nasty. it was alwalys no and i dont think they have til this day. but he still has his 3 somes. with her best friend. tell me if im on the wrong track, - i wont take it personal. i know where your coming from on the person who you could do it with. its because you knew that person, you found him attractive and you felt you could have fun and it would be safe. why dont you try a swingers club. you dont have to take partners and they usually accept single women. i know what you mean by not approaching. your scared of the rejection. i feel it too sometimes. but when your in the bedroom, why dont you just initiate. i used to get to a point of just lying in bed like an idiot, but desperate for sex. waiting for the initiation sometimes never came. so i took this one the shoulders and just thought if i want it. im getting it. i dont care if i initiate.