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larky · 11-27-2009, 02:46 AM

You know, I am absolutely sure 100% my wife has her moms anxiety issues.

She get into HUGE fits if some one comes over unannounced! She gets pissed if the house is not spotless before some one comes over. Right now, at 12:30 am she is cleaning the down stairs before the Sheetrock repair guy can rip down the ceiling in the kitchen and make a mess??

She has lots of anxiety issues and this is one of them that drive me crazy. She has two major weaknesses. 1 is she absurdly HATES embarrassment. Once we arived at church a little late and I said you made us a little late. She pulled off her wedding ring and gave it to me. That was two years ago.

We arrived at church and I said, grab a pen and fill out this class assignment. She said "I dont want to be put on the spot or I will walk right out the door" as she was struggling to find a pen in her purse.

She had a 20k credit card debt before we met and never told me. She still has a huge debt and with me not working, its getting worse.

But its her general anxiety issues that is driving me up the wall. Her dad deals with her moms anxiety issues and in the past because of them, thay would get in alot of verbal fights. Her mom and my wife would assume something we did wrong, then blame us and yell at us.

Her mom is worse!! mom would refuse to allow the kids to use the washer or dryer because she thought they may brake them.

Anyway, what kind of anxiety is this? im fed up and just want to live on my own once I get a good job.

She treats everything in the house as hers. She said, I did not buy anything yet, 95% of everything was purchased in the marriage. I contributed mostly to the rent. To many things she calls hers in the house.

11-27-2009, 02:46 AM	#1 (permalink)
larky Registered User Join Date: Nov 2009 Posts: 1	my wife anxiety is driving me crazy! You know, I am absolutely sure 100% my wife has her moms anxiety issues. She get into HUGE fits if some one comes over unannounced! She gets pissed if the house is not spotless before some one comes over. Right now, at 12:30 am she is cleaning the down stairs before the Sheetrock repair guy can rip down the ceiling in the kitchen and make a mess?? She has lots of anxiety issues and this is one of them that drive me crazy. She has two major weaknesses. 1 is she absurdly HATES embarrassment. Once we arived at church a little late and I said you made us a little late. She pulled off her wedding ring and gave it to me. That was two years ago. We arrived at church and I said, grab a pen and fill out this class assignment. She said "I dont want to be put on the spot or I will walk right out the door" as she was struggling to find a pen in her purse. She had a 20k credit card debt before we met and never told me. She still has a huge debt and with me not working, its getting worse. But its her general anxiety issues that is driving me up the wall. Her dad deals with her moms anxiety issues and in the past because of them, thay would get in alot of verbal fights. Her mom and my wife would assume something we did wrong, then blame us and yell at us. Her mom is worse!! mom would refuse to allow the kids to use the washer or dryer because she thought they may brake them. Anyway, what kind of anxiety is this? im fed up and just want to live on my own once I get a good job. She treats everything in the house as hers. She said, I did not buy anything yet, 95% of everything was purchased in the marriage. I contributed mostly to the rent. To many things she calls hers in the house.