Talk About Marriage - View Single Post - plz help a man who loves his girlfriend....

elwayfanatic · 11-27-2009, 01:34 PM

Scarlet, you said "It looks to me like she has a long established pattern of closing herself off when she has problems or stress. I completely understand that as I did the same thing. It can be very easy to put up those walls, and very hard to break them down." so....how did you do it, and how can i help her? its not healthy to be walled up your whole life...and i think once she starts to break them down, she will explode with love for me. i just dont know how i can help...there MUST be a way...

also you said "If you are the guy you say you are, she missed you on Thanksgiving". what leads you to believe this?

11-27-2009, 01:34 PM	#14 (permalink)
elwayfanatic Registered User Join Date: Nov 2009 Posts: 12	Re: plz help a man who loves his girlfriend.... Scarlet, you said "It looks to me like she has a long established pattern of closing herself off when she has problems or stress. I completely understand that as I did the same thing. It can be very easy to put up those walls, and very hard to break them down." so....how did you do it, and how can i help her? its not healthy to be walled up your whole life...and i think once she starts to break them down, she will explode with love for me. i just dont know how i can help...there MUST be a way... also you said "If you are the guy you say you are, she missed you on Thanksgiving". what leads you to believe this?