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Corpuswife · 11-27-2009, 09:05 PM

If he has proven himself during this time. If you have NO reason to believe he's dishonest during this time. If he is an open book. Then you will have to forgive him. You will always remember his betrayal. If he has met the conditions above then there will need to be a point where you have to move forward or your marriage will suffer.

He can't pay for this the rest of his life. Eventually, you will need to come to terms.

I have a friend that cheat for 6 months. Came to her senses. After 4 years of being monitored and not trusted...she told her H.."either you trust me or you don't but this has to stop." She was ready to walk as she paid her dues and was well behaved. Eventually you have to let go and trust.

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Corpuswife Member Join Date: Apr 2009 Posts: 2,313	Re: I took him back If he has proven himself during this time. If you have NO reason to believe he's dishonest during this time. If he is an open book. Then you will have to forgive him. You will always remember his betrayal. If he has met the conditions above then there will need to be a point where you have to move forward or your marriage will suffer. He can't pay for this the rest of his life. Eventually, you will need to come to terms. I have a friend that cheat for 6 months. Came to her senses. After 4 years of being monitored and not trusted...she told her H.."either you trust me or you don't but this has to stop." She was ready to walk as she paid her dues and was well behaved. Eventually you have to let go and trust.