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Old 11-28-2009, 12:31 AM   #1 (permalink)
gmailgirl
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Default sex outside marriage

Please advice. I have been happily married for past 6 years except for sex part. Me and my husband met when we were students, he is a kind and affectionate man but has a very low libido. On the other hand I have an extremely high libido (sex 2 times a day) I have bipolar 2 and people with that are extremely hyper-sexual, outgoing, dynamic and ambitious. It is a genetic disorder as I can see that with my brother, sister and father too. However I am hardworking with successful career and a positive personality but sex is always on my mind. Divorce for sex doesn't seem right to me as I really love him and he loves me. I have been suppressing my desires for past six years. He has tried exercising and other methods to boost testosterone levels but it doesn't help.

My office colleague has similar problem, he has bipolar 2 and his wife has low libido. He asked me if we could help each other and keep our marriages working. He has a little boy and a wife whom he really loves.

Is this something that people do(?) and if anyone is experienced can they throw some light on how I can solve this problem. I am not at peace with this. I don't bother my husband too much as I know he is very sensitive and he can not satisfy me even if he tries. I don't know what else to do. I don't know how will I spend my life like that. Can someone give me a positive advice and not be judgmental?
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