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jessi · 11-28-2009, 05:56 AM

Hi, thanks for the responses,

Help, I think because of all the years invested it's tough to take and accept that he has moved on with someone else, having an affair is just not something that I can believe he is capable of, he always has spoken about situations like this as being wrong. He has always said that people who step out are selfish(I wonder if he thinks this of himself now) I've been described as the nice girl myself and I always consider the other side of the story and I'm one who worries if everyone else is okay emotionally......I do think I need to stop that and start making my decisions only for myself......he has moved on but it is so hard to let go of our lives.

11-28-2009, 05:56 AM	#4 (permalink)
jessi Member Join Date: Feb 2009 Posts: 330	Re: well I guess it's done Hi, thanks for the responses, Help, I think because of all the years invested it's tough to take and accept that he has moved on with someone else, having an affair is just not something that I can believe he is capable of, he always has spoken about situations like this as being wrong. He has always said that people who step out are selfish(I wonder if he thinks this of himself now) I've been described as the nice girl myself and I always consider the other side of the story and I'm one who worries if everyone else is okay emotionally......I do think I need to stop that and start making my decisions only for myself......he has moved on but it is so hard to let go of our lives.