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lost1234 · 11-28-2009, 08:44 AM

so friends, I guess this ride is taking yet another turn.

we are not moving as the landlord came through, thank god...one thing in this mess will stay the same for our children.

Thanksgiving was good. enjoyed by everyone.

h was in woods all day again yesterday, preparing for hunting. our 5 y/o gets her first loose tooth. WANTS nothing more than to show/tell dad.we call and leave a message.

hours...dinnertime he finally calls back.what an ass! she is 5 the excitement is gone...h takes it out on me. wtf???

now i am upset, i didnt do or say anything.

he cant take this anymore, hes done, he cant live like this. he is filing for divorce the first of the year...

what next???

more eggshells and kissing his butt as not to upset him? what about me?? i have endured everything myself for the last 4 months. his visits mean nothing to me anymore. he is soooo tired of trying to make us happy. it would be such an easy thing if he were to LISTEN and HEAR anything that was being said...

he has been told by dr...mlc, depression low testosterone. complete denial to this day.

i know it is all about him...i have been living it!

daz8ed and cw, i am so angry now the detachment should be easier, and Im not going to wait until after the holidays! I need my sanity.

I love him, our family and what we used to have in life b4 all of this craziness! if that is what he wants...i cant stop him...

I do wonder if it is his way of getting me to shut up and back off...either way that is what he will get now. peace and quiet.
its me and our girls...

11-28-2009, 08:44 AM	#1 (permalink)
lost1234 Member Join Date: Aug 2009 Posts: 256	threatening divorce? what next? so friends, I guess this ride is taking yet another turn. we are not moving as the landlord came through, thank god...one thing in this mess will stay the same for our children. Thanksgiving was good. enjoyed by everyone. h was in woods all day again yesterday, preparing for hunting. our 5 y/o gets her first loose tooth. WANTS nothing more than to show/tell dad.we call and leave a message. hours...dinnertime he finally calls back.what an ass! she is 5 the excitement is gone...h takes it out on me. wtf??? now i am upset, i didnt do or say anything. he cant take this anymore, hes done, he cant live like this. he is filing for divorce the first of the year... what next??? more eggshells and kissing his butt as not to upset him? what about me?? i have endured everything myself for the last 4 months. his visits mean nothing to me anymore. he is soooo tired of trying to make us happy. it would be such an easy thing if he were to LISTEN and HEAR anything that was being said... he has been told by dr...mlc, depression low testosterone. complete denial to this day. i know it is all about him...i have been living it! daz8ed and cw, i am so angry now the detachment should be easier, and Im not going to wait until after the holidays! I need my sanity. I love him, our family and what we used to have in life b4 all of this craziness! if that is what he wants...i cant stop him... I do wonder if it is his way of getting me to shut up and back off...either way that is what he will get now. peace and quiet. its me and our girls... __________________ loving mother and devoted wife, I will endure this pain with the faith, hope and love i have for my family!