nappilymarried

thank u for responding. i know that it is my husband'sresponsilility to build back up that trust. he's trying. i will give him that. he's going to counseling, and has unlocked his phone. but i dont feel like hes giving 100%, like checking email on his phone,instead of the computer, even when hes right there at the computer, doing something else. and i know a few things he said in counseling werent true. i havent said anything to him about it. but i plan to bring it up in couseling in our next session. its suppose to be a session where we met together then seperately. i think thats a good idea, so the counselor can hear where both of us are coming from at this point.