dan681

I want to know who she was with and when. She has been lieing to me for years, and unless she is willing to come clean, I dont know if I can forgive her. There is more to her story then she is telling me!! As much as it is going to hurt me, I need her to be honest to me. That is a start. We made progress last night. We talked for 5 hours, trying to resolve some problems. After making lots of progress, and her being honest with me, she says, "what if I slept around on you last month?" She tought it was a joke, but it is to soon to be making these references about her infedlity??? Why would she say that if she isnt guilty??? We made so much progress, and she is willing to throw this under the bus?? I dont know what to believe anymore?? I am making an efort?? When is she going to try??? Am I supposed to believe everything she says?? I dont!! She has hurt me so bad, and I am still trying to forgive her??? When will she be honest with me?? I never asked her about the affair, I just want to know why??? Its easy for her to blame me for all of this, But she has a hard time acepting responsibility for what she has done. I appreciate any input, beacause I am so confused!!!