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lost1234 · 11-28-2009, 01:39 PM

a big thanks to both of you!

My posts ARE up and down...just like him. no more!

i will admit i bought a copy of Divorce Remedy today...im gonna read it.
Although I dont want this, I cant stop it.

his reason for leaving was that he is unhappy, needs to find himself...all the bs.

the only thing i know is that he is depressed, has low testosterone and has been told he is having a mlc. yes by dr.

I have to take a stand, for my sanity and for our girls.

CW you are ahead of me, although i do not envy you for that, I truly appreciate your advice!

I will continue to read, post and think...its going to take me a few to figure out exactly how I want to do all of this, it going to be hard.

I am thinking to start with some more counseling for myself...to keep nc as easily as i can, and maybe for the girls...ill need to speak with someone about how that would work...

I really am at a loss on all of this, if it were his heart, I wouldnt walk away...he is being an ass though and not fair in any way shape or form...its so sad.

11-28-2009, 01:39 PM	#4 (permalink)
lost1234 Member Join Date: Aug 2009 Posts: 256	Re: threatening divorce? what next? a big thanks to both of you! My posts ARE up and down...just like him. no more! i will admit i bought a copy of Divorce Remedy today...im gonna read it. Although I dont want this, I cant stop it. his reason for leaving was that he is unhappy, needs to find himself...all the bs. the only thing i know is that he is depressed, has low testosterone and has been told he is having a mlc. yes by dr. I have to take a stand, for my sanity and for our girls. CW you are ahead of me, although i do not envy you for that, I truly appreciate your advice! I will continue to read, post and think...its going to take me a few to figure out exactly how I want to do all of this, it going to be hard. I am thinking to start with some more counseling for myself...to keep nc as easily as i can, and maybe for the girls...ill need to speak with someone about how that would work... I really am at a loss on all of this, if it were his heart, I wouldnt walk away...he is being an ass though and not fair in any way shape or form...its so sad. __________________ loving mother and devoted wife, I will endure this pain with the faith, hope and love i have for my family!