beninneedofhelp

No not crazy but the others advise is good IMO put your foot down say hey are you married to her or me and if so start acting like it maybe.. Sometimes as it was for me and i no every situation is different then the others but there are certain things that can relat for me it took my wife to kick me out and even now say she is done with me no chance no hope to finally wake up and see what was truely important to me in life and that was her and our kids without any doubt, now it may be to late cause she didnt put her foot down and let it build into more pain and resentment and anger but i am still in it for the long road cause i no how important they are and what keeping my family means to me but if she would have put her foot down earlier i would have responded way earlier and that would have made a huge difference then , where is right now its very difficult and hard to cope with and i might not even have a chance now but still hoping there is , cause for me now i no and understand and ready , but when she didnt do it before i was just oblivious and lost to what was needed what was important. I to have been posting on her and im confused on a lot of things maybe i post to much i have even shared personal letters im thinking of giving her , but sometimes you get responses sometimes you dont but i have found that most advise is good and some storys of working for what is important like the one by a guy named Vvoid or close to it is great inspiration and can give you strength to do what is needed , not saying you will relate to all of them but there is a lot on here to learn from and take time to think from.. But if i was you id put that foot down and it might be tough at first but may be the best thing you can do for your family as a hole..