Commited1

gmailgirl,

I am terrible with advice so take with a grain of salt please-

I think you should focus on why he does not satisfy you even if he tries. If he is willing to try there is something you can work with. When I say 'focus on', you need to think about and discuss the specifics of what he is doing wrong. Never say unable. He is able if you are both willing.

Sexual energy can also be channeled into other areas with some mental discipline. Just as with some mental discipline he is able to please you.

If you are both as commited and traditional as you say, you both can do this. Don't give up. Don't stray.

just my thoughts