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Originally Posted by gmailgirl
what do people like me should do? suffer through out their lives thinking this is god's plan for me.
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i also think about this when considering if i should leave my H. There are pro's and con's to all lifestyles. What would your life be like if you divorced and got all the sex you wanted? think about it as an adult, with real consequences, and not in your fantasy land. Do you think that if you got all the sex you wanted, just as wild and crazy as you wanted, that you would not suffer? What about unwanted pregnancy's, disease, rape, and emotional turmoil? These are the con's of the lifestyle you are pursing.
Ive answered these questions for myself and i know i would suffer. You have an emotional imbalance and i know you would suffer, too. Not at first of course, but then you didnt suffer in your marriage at first either, did you. Be careful about the fantasy you are creating in your mind.