Your initial post was about how busy you are with your life.
Does your husband feel that you make him a very high priority?
Does he feel loved by you? Does he feel like you make the effort to have a good sex life with him?
If not, then he likely feels that his EA soon to be PA is justified.
I am not saying it is, I am saying that your post implies you don't have much time for him. I bet that has been true for a long time.
When was the last time you asked him if he was happy with your marriage, your sex life, the way you treat him?
Because if you PUT YOUR FOOT DOWN without addressing your role in this you may find yourself in a race to the courthouse. You cannot ignore someone and then demand fidelity.
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Originally Posted by sadandhurt
Thanks for the advice. I am certainly thinking of my family. I cherish my family more than anything. It is very difficult to see a family disintegrate before your very eyes. My daughters are teenagers and need the traditional home.
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