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sadandhurt · 11-28-2009, 09:55 PM

Well, I do think it is a vicious cycle. We work different hours. But...honestly, I am a very vocal individual and ask and confront his feelings about our marriage. His response always is that our marriage is fine. I respond to tell him that I want it to be a closer relationship and have more time together. I also requested that the calls end.

The reason that I am busy is that when he is working, I am the taxi cab, the chaperone, the chef, etc., for our teenagers. When we are both available, I am the one that makes the effort to spend time together. It is when he is working or should be sleeping that he is chatting on the phone with his college friend.

Our sex life is good too! I guess this is why I am so baffled. He truly has everything he needs--why is he searching for more. Also, do you think that this girl's husband should be made aware of all the phone calls. Remember there are over 100 text messages per month and over 1,200 minutes of telephone conversation. Should the husband know?

11-28-2009, 09:55 PM	#9 (permalink)
sadandhurt Registered User Join Date: Nov 2009 Location: New York Posts: 14	Re: 23 Years of Marriage that May be Ending Well, I do think it is a vicious cycle. We work different hours. But...honestly, I am a very vocal individual and ask and confront his feelings about our marriage. His response always is that our marriage is fine. I respond to tell him that I want it to be a closer relationship and have more time together. I also requested that the calls end. The reason that I am busy is that when he is working, I am the taxi cab, the chaperone, the chef, etc., for our teenagers. When we are both available, I am the one that makes the effort to spend time together. It is when he is working or should be sleeping that he is chatting on the phone with his college friend. Our sex life is good too! I guess this is why I am so baffled. He truly has everything he needs--why is he searching for more. Also, do you think that this girl's husband should be made aware of all the phone calls. Remember there are over 100 text messages per month and over 1,200 minutes of telephone conversation. Should the husband know?