dan681

I tried again to make a connection with my wife. We went to my fathers house for his birthday party, then afterwards we went out and had a few drinks. I know that alcohol isnt supposed to help, but it helps us?? We can be uninhibited, and speak our feelings. After we got home, I gave her a sensoual massage, with out asking for sex!! It happens to be that time of the month. I took care of myself afterwards?? She still seems so distant?? Sometimes shes happy. and flick the switch, and she is miserable?? I cant figure out her mood changes?? I am making an effort to do the right thing. I cant wait till our next counseling session, which is scheduled for next thursday. good luck to all!!