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swedish · 06-27-2008, 06:45 PM

I'm not sure how often he is going out, but maybe you could start out trying 'equal time' In other words, if he's going to spend 4 hours on Saturday doing whatever with his buddies, then ask him to block out 4 hours on Sunday for either you to do your thing while he's with the baby or all 3 of you do something together. Ease him into the family life w/o him feeling all of his freedom is being stripped.

06-27-2008, 06:45 PM	#8 (permalink)
swedish Moderator Join Date: Mar 2008 Location: Near Chicago Posts: 1,386	Re: New Baby - why has only my life changed? I'm not sure how often he is going out, but maybe you could start out trying 'equal time' In other words, if he's going to spend 4 hours on Saturday doing whatever with his buddies, then ask him to block out 4 hours on Sunday for either you to do your thing while he's with the baby or all 3 of you do something together. Ease him into the family life w/o him feeling all of his freedom is being stripped.