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I appreciate everyone's advice. My husband's intercourse time is maximum 2-4 minutes and he can't give me any orgasms. He tried exercising and semen retention to boost his testosterone levels but has not succeeded so far. He is not interested as he is comfortable with his sexual capability. I mention time to time to do something about increasing his libido but he tries a little and then leaves it. I guess his biological built up is like that. I can't pressurize him to perform every time. It is extremely frustrating for me but I try to keep it cool as I know it would hurt him. He is very young, ambitious and on a good position; my continuous insistence would affect his personality and work in a negative way. He is pretty satisfied with sex twice a week and never initiates it. He is simply not a very sexual person though I am fairly attractive and wear sexy lingerie, do regular bj's etc.

I've been able to channelize my sexual energy for many years in my creative work (and have been successful!) but failing to do so for past one and a half years. In spite of too much work and deadlines my brain keeps obsessing about sex not necessarily with strangers but with my husband, and he doesn't carry any passion or intensity. I know an extra marital might end up being an emotional disaster for me so I haven't pursued it even when I got multiple chances. But it is very sad being sex starved.

I guess I don't have a solution; I'll pray to god and hope everything would be fine with time. When I'll have kids I'll be busy and channelize my energy in my kids.