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cao428 · 06-27-2008, 06:51 PM

Hello everyone,

If your spouse has been cheating and lies on top of lies and will not admit it, what do you do if you have no proof, but you know in your heart? A therapist told me I should ask him to leave unless he comes clean. She said unfortunatly that is what it is going to take and then at that point we can begin to work on the marriage. I am afraid he will not come back if I do this, but I don't know if we will make it if I don't.

I am stuck. I love him more than I can say and we have 26 years together and two wonderful older children, one at home in HS. Any help will be appreciated.

06-27-2008, 06:51 PM	#1 (permalink)
cao428 Member Join Date: Jun 2008 Location: North East USA Posts: 141	What to do when they won't come clean? Hello everyone, If your spouse has been cheating and lies on top of lies and will not admit it, what do you do if you have no proof, but you know in your heart? A therapist told me I should ask him to leave unless he comes clean. She said unfortunatly that is what it is going to take and then at that point we can begin to work on the marriage. I am afraid he will not come back if I do this, but I don't know if we will make it if I don't. I am stuck. I love him more than I can say and we have 26 years together and two wonderful older children, one at home in HS. Any help will be appreciated.