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Old 11-29-2009, 08:27 AM   #14 (permalink)
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Default Re: sex outside marriage

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Originally Posted by gmailgirl View Post
I appreciate everyone's advice. My husband's intercourse time is maximum 2-4 minutes and he can't give me any orgasms.
I think the big issue to work on here is not so much his libido, but your lack of orgasms with him. I would not let him get away with sex that doesn't get you to an orgasm. I'm not sure if you're both aware but only a small minority of women manage to orgasm through intercourse alone. It can be a purely physiological thing related to the proximity of the clitorus to the vagina.

Either you need to use your hands on yourself been you're with him, or he needs to do it you. Or some combination thereof.
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