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LostandAlone · 06-27-2008, 10:55 PM

What type of things make you so sure that he is cheating? What kind of lies is he telling and how did you know he was lying? That makes a difference but I'm assuming your therapist wouldn't go out on a limb and suggest you kick him out if they weren't pretty sure too.

My wife has been lying to me too about an emotional affair she has been having so I know where you are coming from and it sucks. I keep getting to the point where I'm ready to give up but just can't even though that may be the only way to get her to stop. I'm afraid she will just say fine and go along. That however is the tricky part because if they are willing to let you go or in your case "will not come back" then how much do they really care about the marriage?

06-27-2008, 10:55 PM	#2 (permalink)
LostandAlone Registered User Join Date: Jun 2008 Location: Pacific Northwest Posts: 29	Re: What to do when they won't come clean? What type of things make you so sure that he is cheating? What kind of lies is he telling and how did you know he was lying? That makes a difference but I'm assuming your therapist wouldn't go out on a limb and suggest you kick him out if they weren't pretty sure too. My wife has been lying to me too about an emotional affair she has been having so I know where you are coming from and it sucks. I keep getting to the point where I'm ready to give up but just can't even though that may be the only way to get her to stop. I'm afraid she will just say fine and go along. That however is the tricky part because if they are willing to let you go or in your case "will not come back" then how much do they really care about the marriage?