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sadandhurt · 11-29-2009, 07:07 PM

Yes, I feel that when you are married, you don't befriend old flames, you don't create new flames, and you solely work on your marriage. After 23 years, I don't understand why someone would risk all those years of togetherness and the kids' happiness. I wonder--does this person feed his ego? Are these complaints about me? What exactly is the magnetic issue that makes both of you call when you are so many miles away? I have asked these questions to him and her and get no answers. I really am confused. Can't figure out what I could have done to make him want to call this person and to put me last on the list. This has been great that I can write in like this as I don't want to tell others. I live in a small town, and I don't want the kids to catch wind of this. Wearing my game face--each and every day.

11-29-2009, 07:07 PM	#13 (permalink)
sadandhurt Registered User Join Date: Nov 2009 Location: New York Posts: 14	Re: 23 Years of Marriage that May be Ending Yes, I feel that when you are married, you don't befriend old flames, you don't create new flames, and you solely work on your marriage. After 23 years, I don't understand why someone would risk all those years of togetherness and the kids' happiness. I wonder--does this person feed his ego? Are these complaints about me? What exactly is the magnetic issue that makes both of you call when you are so many miles away? I have asked these questions to him and her and get no answers. I really am confused. Can't figure out what I could have done to make him want to call this person and to put me last on the list. This has been great that I can write in like this as I don't want to tell others. I live in a small town, and I don't want the kids to catch wind of this. Wearing my game face--each and every day.