Just a shameless bump and update.
My wife is loving this technique.Had more sex in the past 2 weeks then all last year,of coarse its not just this method.I am addressing resentment issues on both sides of the marriage coin.
How ever she is usually private about our sex life,but when she has heard me talk about sexless threads on these forums and how I find it/them sad....she says link out your technique to them in their thread.
I am not promoting it as the end all be all,but it does blow my little male mind.