Ok since I started the women's one, I guess it is only fair I answer this question.
I did not become sexual active at all, until the age of 16, I happened to have a girlfriend who ended up being a nympho. We would come home everyday from school and go to her house and have sex, I am talking daily. Why do I say she was a Nympho...Because I found out years later, she was also doing it with my BF at the same time...The girl could not get enough.
but after that...dry spell for a bit...That is where the self masturbation came into play, going from daily to zero is tough...
Anyway I fantasied about various girls from school, etc.
Well now that I am with my wife, we had a long distance relationship, she went to school in PA and I went to school in NJ, so there was ALLOT of phone sex going on, we actually learned what got each other off and what we liked.
Now a days I probably masturbate daily, Most of the fantasies involve my wife and me, other men(with wife), orgies, etc Stuff that would never happen.
I do watch porn, but do not get off on it, I find it boring, to fake. My wife and I have made sex tapes and I get off on that all the time, I find that one truly HOT.
Several ways of doing this...The hand no lotion, and Also I like the humping my pillow using a sock method (go ahead and laugh) it's all mental anyway.
I have been caught by my wife, but she will either say finish up or ask me to stop so she can finish me.
I do it often when my wife is tired and I am horny, she goes to bed, I take care of business so she can sleep and I can get the "horniness" out of my system, otherewise I will be up all night.
Not into models or famous women, I prefer the ordinary woman. I find the nice woman that is Slightly naughty the most attractive.
My #1 fantasy is me and my wife in a threesome with another man, the part that gets me off is imagining my wife getting completely satisfied and enjoying two men......Something that will never happen in real life.