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scarletblue · 11-30-2009, 09:20 AM

In answer to your last question....I was putting myself in her shoes and that is how I would feel if I were her. I'm not her, so I guess I shouldn't have jumped to that conclusion.

How did I get him to let down the walls? A heck of a lot of talking. We'd spend hours and hours just talking and playing cards, etc.... I had decided that I wanted to put 100% into our relationship. I didn't want to look back and think "If only I'd said this, or done that." That is a really hard thing to do. Once your heart has been broken, you want to guard it so it doesn't happen again.

It took time and paticence on my part. He had to see that I wasn't going anywhere. That there were no conditions on my love.

11-30-2009, 09:20 AM	#15 (permalink)
scarletblue Member Join Date: May 2009 Location: Washington State Posts: 363	Re: plz help a man who loves his girlfriend.... In answer to your last question....I was putting myself in her shoes and that is how I would feel if I were her. I'm not her, so I guess I shouldn't have jumped to that conclusion. How did I get him to let down the walls? A heck of a lot of talking. We'd spend hours and hours just talking and playing cards, etc.... I had decided that I wanted to put 100% into our relationship. I didn't want to look back and think "If only I'd said this, or done that." That is a really hard thing to do. Once your heart has been broken, you want to guard it so it doesn't happen again. It took time and paticence on my part. He had to see that I wasn't going anywhere. That there were no conditions on my love.