need some opinions
Okay I need to tell my grown sons 22 and 20 that my husband and I are separating. They do know that things are not great between us. My husband is having an affair that has been going on probably for 6 months to a year, not really sure. It's someone he works with and someone our boys know....my husband wants me to make sure they know that he was under the mindset that our marriage was over and that this is why he pursued this relationship. I am with the belief that you end the marriage first before you enter into a new one, respect for me and my kids. i want to tell them the truth and I don't want them to hear from anyone else, i want to be completely upfront.
I need some experiences of this situation so I can think it out and figure out how I will handle it, they live in another city so I was thinking I'll get a room somewhere so we have privacy and that way I can be around for them for any questions they might have....
looking forward to some imput.......thanks for any help
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