justean

getting tested for the stds, and hopefully the results are negative, are important to forgiving. its because its a start of a new beginning.
as for his little lies in counselling, why does he do it, but atleast through your sessions, you dont seem scared to tackle it.
my suggestion is though , if you think hes lieing straightaway, tackle it there and then.
if you leave it a week , he has the excuse to forget.
another tip for you to think about.
my brother and yes he is awful for doing this, but he is in an unhappy place in his life.
but he does have a second phone that i promise missus knows nothing about. even i had to have a chat with my hubby, all of a sudden 3 phone appeared. i admit i do go through them, but it gives me peace of mind. and i get my hubby to tell me where he is and what time hes back.
to be honest given a bit of persuasion , he does not mind. then again i wouldnot let him mind.
i told him , his act has made me what i am doing now and atleast though countless ear sessions, he does see that i was not like this b 4. now he knows he has to earn his trust. this was not easy to deal with at the start.
and i believe its because of what he did , he had his own issues.
also attending a clinic, men dont tend to want to discuss those things, everything has to be forgottn.
but it does seem your hubby is trying.