justean

i actually believe when a hubby works away, there is no doubt about it, they live 2 lives.
i can give a situation, but its not a couple. my nan (rip) and i thought alot of her. well for the last 15 years of her life, she left where we live to go to liverpool. its about a 4 hr drive from us in wales.
but never the less and this was just my nan, but we all noticed the changes.
we would go to see her at different intervals. n e way, she would tell you how bad the family up there would treat her and we were appalled. never visited, would drive past her home etc etc.
then when she would come down here, she would backlash the family again from liverpool in a nastier way.
however when she went back home, she would tell them how bad we all treated her.
talk about a double header and having two lives.
n e way she was diagnosed with cancer and two weeks b 4 she dies, she had a little holiday , only a hotel , but none of our family down here were invited.infact we did not even know, until her funeral. it was all the liverpool lot that got invited.
so our family all travel to liverpool. well at her funeral it was the strangest of funeral. it was like one big family, but with a massive divide. i actually blame my nan for that. whenever we went to see her , we never mixed with family up there because she said they did not want us . but the only person that knew the truth and what she was doing was the one in the middle (nan)
i know that an odd story, but i suppose my morel in this, is the only person that lied was my nan. the one that knew the truth was my nan. and the fact that ppl can live two lives. but you wil never know the whole truth. lies dont stop - hes told to many of them.
and you will never know what kind of person he has made you out to be. half the time wedding bands come of easy.
its only what your prepared to put up with.